From the UNSTAGED studio
A considered edit of weddings, planning and fashion. The columns we'd actually read, written from the UNSTAGED studio.
A new edit every four days

Featured · The Planning Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
One tool per job. The planning, the wardrobe, the registry, the paper, the photographs your guests take and the album you make afterwards — and what each one is actually for.
Read the essay · 6 min

The Fashion Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
Fifteen second wedding dresses for the part of the night the gown was not built for: feathered minis from Aston Bridal, satin and sequins from Self-Portrait, and three long ones for the bride who wants to change and keep the train. The first dress is for the ceremony. This one is for the party.
5 min read

The Fashion Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
The pieces we would actually pack for the week after the wedding, when the only plan is to have none. Six things, quietly chosen.
3 min read

The Fashion Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
Seven pairs of wedding earrings in pearl, silver and crystal, from a pearl drop that works with everything to a bow that only works with one dress. Where each one sits, what it does to the face, and the one rule about the veil.
4 min read

Founder's Note · Amanda
There are twenty perfectly good wedding templates available for free. I have filled in several of them. That is exactly why UNSTAGED is not one.
5 min read

The Planning Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
Modern wedding cake ideas, edited down. Draped fondant, sculptural sheet cakes, sugar anthuriums and one pair of swans. Eight designs that look like the wedding you actually want, and the note on each about what to ask your baker for.
5 min read

The Planning Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
Nine things that actually help, from the one question to ask her this week to the three bookings you can close on your own. None of them require you to plan a wedding.
4 min read

The Fashion Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
Twelve pairs of white, ivory and silver wedding shoes in four kinds: three in satin, three you can dance in, three that are deliberately too much, and three flats for the morning and the last hour.
4 min read

The Planning Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
Every tour is designed to make you fall in love. Your job is to ask the unromantic questions anyway — and the five that matter most are the ones nobody volunteers.
4 min read

The Fashion Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
Nine veils, arranged the only way that matters: by length. Cathedral first, fingertip second, and the small piece of French netting that changes your face rather than your silhouette.
4 min read

The Planning Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
If it isn't a legal requirement, it's a suggestion. A list of the things couples assume are compulsory, and what happens when you quietly leave them out.
4 min read

The Fashion Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
The waistline that dropped out of fashion in the nineties and came back as the most flattering thing in bridal. Six gowns, and where to see the houses that do not publish a price.
4 min read

The Planning Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
The hard part of a budget isn't the total. It's the split — and it is the split nobody shows you before you are already three quotes deep.
3 min read

The Planning Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
What to do each month, from the week you get engaged to the morning after. Written for couples planning it themselves, with the order that actually matters and the parts you are allowed to skip.
14 min read

The Planning Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
A summer as a guest at the exact event you're about to host. The details are sharp right now and they will not stay that way, so here is what to write down this week.
4 min read

The Fashion Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
Every wedding that looks effortless was quietly directed. The method a stylist uses to build a shoot works just as well on a single day — a way of seeing that turns a hundred saved images into one coherent room.
5 min read

The Planner's Desk · The UNSTAGED Studio
After more weddings than I can count, the lessons that stayed aren't about flowers or floor plans. They're about time, and people, and what you can safely let go of.
6 min read

The Fashion Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
The shapes are shifting: softer, more structured, less costume. A note on what the modern bride is actually wearing, and why it feels different this year.
5 min read

The Planning Edit · The UNSTAGED Studio
Everyone asks what to book first. I've spent enough time on the supplier side to have a real answer, so here's the order that actually works, and the reasons nobody tells you.
5 min read

Founder's Note · Amanda
On the week planning stops feeling like excitement, and what to do when the wedding you wanted goes a little quiet.
4 min read
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